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thoda sex theory, thoda sex practical..

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The title may sound ajeeb but i couldn’t come up with anything else. I have many a times wished to write about the views about sex education. So all the “liberals” of the blog world are supporting sex education so being a rebel i have to take the opposite path, and thats by my default nature. If i were sitting among people who are against sex education i would have opposed them, but its good to do that, it helps to bring out the other perspective.

I am really against these sex education thing, sex is something that is natural. Those children will come to know about it anyway in one way or the other, why does it needs to be taught through class rooms. Teaching Sex, why do u need to even teach give them a copy of kama sutra or a blue film cd. They will get indepth knowledge thru it. Those opposing to it say that sex education promotes promiscuity . Thats what the truth is, when one knows about something they would want to experiment with it. And when it will be taught through school they would think that its something normal, legal and acceptable, they will think that every one will be going to do it after we are some what older what difference does it make when we do it now. And that thought  process is certainly rational and they would be tempted to try it out, its human nature, its common sense. 
The knowlege about sex and related issues depend on the neighbourhood / envirnoment of the child. The higher class and lower-class childeren know about it a lot before and the middle class learns about it later. Mostly they are shared in hushed tones, then secret discussion are done thats how its done, then girls try sexy literature and boys try play boy’s, porn cds, in recent times internet has changed a things lot but in our times it was not that easy. And this is the right way, the way of self-discovery, learning from the habitat, through observations and riddles, and i would say its the safest and right way. When learned thorugh this process, not only one knows about things at appropriate times but also creates funny stories, and memories which can be cherished at later stages of life. We are nothing but our memories.
And now the personal experience part. I learned about sex quiet late, to be frank very late i cant recall when exactly it was but it was only after a year since i had my first erection. Its really funny thou the first time i had an erection i was shocked and i thought i might be having some kind of disease. How can my dick become so big compared to its normal size of course i couldnt find any rational reason to support that. I thought should i tell my parents? should i go to doctor?. I guess my friend circle was as ignorant as me then, i told them and they confirmed they are also having that some times, some one threw in a clue that he used to have it whenever he saw sexy heroines, well that was a good clue. My friend circle was so away from all this things but another friend who was then 2 years younger in same school he then told me about masturbation and stuff solving the trivia. I think by narrating my story i m making a case in support for sex education.  But thts not true.
Also i recall another incident where a friend didn’t knew about sex till he was 16. That day there was normal discussion going on and the topic got carried away to sex. And he didn’t knew how its done, and when he had the revelation that his father and mother did penetration.. man you have to see his face.. it was like, he had heard the biggest scandal. It was as if he was hearing that the whole class saw his mother naked.
…. so these very some personal stories related to ignorance of sex, and later in life as i made new friends from different socio economic backgrounds i heard about child hood sex. Well i had thought to make a post about it some time back, but it didnt occur to me. I will make a detailed post on that some time later. Most of my new friends had sex when they didn’t even were having erection and it all happened because they knew about it. Its just that we dont know about sex when we are young, else every child in the world would do experiment and i am dammn sure about it, i m so sure about it that i can take oath by keeping my hands on ayesha takia’s boobs. (do u know why ayesha takia has such big boobs, actually she had done surgery as a child due to some issues and because of that her boobs kept growing, she is worried but i guess we are happy). 
You give the theory and you cant avoid the practicals.
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Written by maya

April 22, 2009 at 12:35 pm

Posted in my views, sex, uncommon

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  1. Haa! that was a good read. I got to know about sex when I was in 7th or 8th standard.As far as sex education is concerned, read this: Dad:Son, its time we should talk about sex. Son: C’mon dad, what do you wanna know?? πŸ˜›

    Tarun Goel

    April 22, 2009 at 4:33 pm

  2. I didn’t read your comments and neither deleted them, don’t you worry :DI used to think but now it is confirmed :)Carry on

    Tarun Goel

    April 22, 2009 at 4:40 pm

  3. i didnt get it what u used to worry, and wht is confirmed?and regarding that harsh comments, its just that we humans have taken over the planet as if its our baaps jaagir, every animal has to right to be on the planet, and we have no authority to abuse any other life form. If you dont have the power to create it then dont mess with it.I am an animal lover and i become seriouly angry when someone does wrong to them, i think u shud think over it, and the winds of change shud blow in ur heart. have compassion man..

    Maya

    April 22, 2009 at 5:05 pm

  4. Now this is the correct way of sayin smthng, i guess :)I hope u understand what u say and read, jus go and read jaagir phrase again and I pray that you will be abl to make nything out of it πŸ˜€

    Tarun Goel

    April 22, 2009 at 5:55 pm

  5. I dont agree that sex is something natural these days, in India. The problem here is that society (meaning parents and relatives) expect one type of behaviour from you. On the other hand media and friends bombard you with sexually explicit content. In such a situation, a young 10-15 year old can get really confused.

    L. Venkata Subramaniam

    April 22, 2009 at 6:40 pm

  6. @ Venkatathe question basically is does sex education helps the goals of parents and society, or will it make it more worse..

    Maya

    April 22, 2009 at 6:57 pm

  7. What I feel is with the advent of internet and other means of getting information who actually resorts to the classroom teaching for quenching his thirst of knowing about sex ? NONE to be very honest.Todays kids are far more advanced than what we were in our younger days, in fact as Tarun said they might teach their parents a lesson or two on sex.I’m at one with you on this. Sex education in the current scenario is not really needed at all and it should be taken off the educational institutions syllabus.For everything there is a ripe time and today’s internet savvy generation know better where to turn if they are ignorant about anything.

    AmitASH

    April 22, 2009 at 7:21 pm

  8. Very accurate and neat claim…”The higher class and lower-class children know about it a lot before and the middle class learns about it later..” One can’t really deny this fact.

    AmitASH

    April 29, 2009 at 3:54 am

  9. see, th argument for sex ed is not teach them wat it is… its more of telling them what it really is (as opposed to the confused notions kids can end up with from).. but i think th most imp thing is to tell kids that sex is indeed overrated… ask anyone who’s married happily and theyll tell you!

    Avaran

    April 30, 2009 at 3:40 pm

  10. @amitash. agree with you, internet and even mobile today with all it multimedia capabalities has made the knowledge abt sex accesible to kids.@avaran. i think there is no needs for kids to know about sex, they will learn about it automatically when its the time.. a little bit of confusion is not that bad

    Maya

    May 1, 2009 at 10:03 am


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