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Sex in rural and urban India

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So the numbers are in for the sex survey conducted by Union Ministry of Health. So basically we will go thru the numbers and ask some whys and hows. 
The survey shows higher percentage of girls (24 %) had pre maritial sex before the age of 15 compared to boys (9 %). Well most people know that girls grow faster sexually and in recent years the age of entering puberty for girls is getting lower and lower, but that of  boys has remained more or less the same. So its obvious that girls will be into sex at a lower age. If you have been a keen observer at school u must have noticed this, girls doing setting with boys of higher class.

The most interesting part of the survey is the comparison of sex in rural and urban India. Youth in rural areas were also more likely than those in urban areas to have initiated a pre-marital romantic relationship at age 15 (29% rural compared to 17% urban among young men, and 46% rural compared to 31% urban among young women). Well, this is something that i have always thought to be true. The gaon ki bholi ladki is a myth, something that i have came to realize over the years. The point of this post is to understand why the sexual activities in rural areas are high compared to urban areas. If we think generally, we might think it to be other way, with urban people having more access to tv, internet, and porn they might be ones who would be loosing their virginity first. The urban social scene is more open in this regards then y is sex more common in rural areas. Well the answer is very simple.

Answer is Place. The urban kids dont have a place to fuck. Whereas their rural counterparts have lots of it. Lots of wastelands, khets and jungles. It easier to find a place. Whereas the urban youth is ghut ghut k jeeying with their boiling hormones unable to find a place to fuck, they have to find places like shanu ka ground and all, it all becomes very risky na. From the stories i have heard, sex is way too common in villages. And the rural youth has more sexual partners than the urban youth. So there is no such thing as gaon ka gawar, the gawar enjoys and knows a lot more.

read the survey report here http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Sex-before-15-girls-pip-boys-Study-/articleshow/5597478.cms


Written by maya

February 27, 2010 at 11:08 am

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  1. ya Dude Sex is hell lot common in rural than urban area.. and the most suprising thing is the gaon wala public talks loudly about moral ethics n all but incest is most common in villags than urban area… sex among bhabi and devar,among cousin, uncle and niece.. it's very common.. yes the abuandant space and so caled so many Jhopad patti,khet khalyan, jungles, khatal are the most secured places to get involved in rendevous… the availablity of entertainment like TV, internet, porn and hangout places occupies most of the mind space of a urban youth but for the rural and high on adrenalin youth of gaon they don't have many option to entetain after finishing with household and general works.. and abundant space and availablity of partner at home or pados give dem chance to entertain themselves in the best possible manner that is having "Sex"… Bechara urban bacho ke liye "apna hath jagarnath"… 🙂

    Ankesh at Talk

    February 27, 2010 at 3:28 pm

  2. @ankesh.. thts a good point, lack of entertainment options leading to sex… hmmm…and u r right incent is too high in rural areas..

    Uncommon Sense

    February 27, 2010 at 4:49 pm

  3. that is an interesting observation but I don't think it is the place that is the reason. Very aptly pointed out, the Urban India has access to TV, Net and Porn. It is the rural India that as repressed sentiments about just about everything. They keep the girls in the safe realms of the house, saving them from anything thats outside. The numbers just show that has not been happening. The more open the society, The better its chance to develop in a rational way and not just giving in to the repressed desires.


    February 27, 2010 at 6:00 pm

  4. hehe…bang on target…mai aaj raat apne gaon ja raha hun…dekhta hun sex naseeb hota hai ki nahi with any 'bholi-bhali' gaon ki chokri.


    February 28, 2010 at 12:01 am

  5. exactly …absolutely true !!!


    February 28, 2010 at 12:01 am

  6. @niti.. you are under estimating the importance of lack of space,, this is kind a primary reason..@abhi.. gd luck @vici.. thnx for comment

    Uncommon Sense

    March 1, 2010 at 10:09 am

  7. It's absolutely correct that in villages sex happens at early age than it happens in the cities. While I won't underestimate the importance of "place" as, yes, it's indeed a good reason, I would also say that closed living (that is, lack of exposure to media TV, movies) and restricted life style also triggers passion with more force.

    Darshan Chande

    March 2, 2010 at 6:11 pm

  8. @darshan… yeh tht cud b true

    Uncommon Sense

    March 2, 2010 at 7:40 pm

  9. I haven't read the other comments, but I'll take the risk of being repetitive if someone already has my view point. The reason why I see that people from rural areas indulge in sex more than in urban is because of lack of basic sex education, its effects and after-effects. While there is no concept of sex education in India, still a Urban lad or girl has access to information on the do's and don'ts and hence are a tad more educated than the rural guys. But at the end of the day, it is all human instinct. All statistics can be rubbished when human instinct is on rampage.

    Vittaldas Prabhu

    March 2, 2010 at 10:30 pm

  10. @vittaldas.. i m of the view that more information should lead to more sex, rather than restricting it..

    Uncommon Sense

    March 3, 2010 at 10:05 am

  11. Love Reading your BlogThanks fore Shareing helpfull informationThanks

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    April 13, 2010 at 8:47 pm

  12. Interesting observation. Had no idea about this fact.


    May 14, 2010 at 1:43 pm

  13. Jai ho Maharaj ki!!! Gud introspection done….if we generalize ur idea then the conclusion is that Urban people hv more sources of Fun and Sex than rural people and the other reason is Formal education…


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    January 10, 2011 at 8:33 am

  15. That is valuable reflection.. Yes, I agree with you.. This kind of criticize is happening more in both Rural and Urban areas..

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