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LD#3 and the state of mind..

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I know you people are now pissed off with this ladki dekhing posts, i assure you i m much more pissed off than you guys.. even thinking of the ladki dekhing business sends me in a weird mood, i feel as if i m alone in some desert looking for an oasis filled with shit.

So my parents went to some place and were inquiring if there is any ladki in the surrounding and they were directed towards this girl and they saw and they liked and then i went to gujarat after i came back i was supposed to see the girl. So i and mama’s ladka S went to see the girl.. The girl was ok and for the first time i liked a girl, i said to my self dont like her just stay indifferent just in case it doesnt work you wont feel bad, but still after i came back i have been thinking about her, may be the chemical reactions in my brain made me like her, or i was so tired with this ladki dekhing stuff that my mind told me to settle for whatever i can get my hands on. The thought of going again to see another girl really shakes my brains off.. So i said its ok for me, and they also said its ok. I was still full in doubt, i thought there is no way this problem could disappear so fast, especially in my case. But still the probability had gone up, since they too said yes. But i was sure some thing would happen, and i tried hard to not like her..
Then the next day they checked the horoscope, and it was said that the girl had to marry within a month or after 2 years. My father said we dont have any problem, i was a bit hesitant k thats happening so soon, but to cut the jhafa of seeing another girl had me in approval. But they said they wont be able to arrange things in such a short notice, especially their financial standing is not so good. Thou there is no dowry culture in this part of kerala but still gold, the quintessential accessory for the marriage needs a significant amount of money. 
So back to square one, again parents have started their ladki dekhing work, i just hope that my kids do love marriage, because i simply wont have the capacity to find girls for them. My mother the other day says k if you had pataoed a girl it would have been much better for all of us.. and i m thinking the country and the mindset is really changing. People, even the older ones are thinking k love marriage is better and yet i m stuck in this old belief of arranged marriages, lekin i m also tired of it and am thinking k pataoing a girl would have been easier. Lekin arranged marriages are more wilder and exciting, the factor of chance, marriying a girl you dont know is kinda very exciting, i mean its nervously exciting since you dont know what kind of bitch she is. Its like gambling, and i like gambling.
I was going to write something funny, but i forgot.
whatever.

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Written by maya

March 11, 2011 at 10:47 am

Posted in personal diary

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  1. 🙂 this ladki dekhing was not as interesting as the previous two…gd luck to your parents!

    abhishek

    March 11, 2011 at 1:07 pm

  2. even I look at arranged marriages that way. It sort of fascinates me, marrying someone you barely know. Though a number of times, the marriage turns into a disaster.

    thoselovelies

    March 11, 2011 at 1:31 pm

  3. Larhi dekhing processes is arising as a social issues, it creates many Psychological complications in girls … :/

    Asma Khan

    March 11, 2011 at 2:26 pm

  4. @abhi.. i myself m loosing interest then how can the post be interesting..@thoselovelies… marriages turn into disaster either way, its not necessarily have to do anything with being arranged or love..@asma… i think its more of an headache for the boys,,

    Uncommon Sense

    March 11, 2011 at 3:52 pm

  5. totally agree with the last para 🙂

    vicious

    March 12, 2011 at 12:22 am

  6. Huh, the tradition seems to have taken its toll. No doubt this custom seems outdated.So r u going to grab one from the greener pastures of this planet?I had also read the last post of yours. Envied not only your apetite for foreplay and sex, but your tremendous capacity to describe them in words.

    IdleMind

    March 12, 2011 at 7:57 pm

  7. @vici.. glad@idle.. yeh it seems outdated but its kinda good..describing in writing may b comes naturally to an introvert..

    Uncommon Sense

    March 12, 2011 at 9:25 pm

  8. Arrange marriage sure like hell is gambling. If you get your cards wrong, one has to suffer life longHope your search bears a fruitful result.

    The Survivor

    March 13, 2011 at 10:48 am


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